Ways to Keep Spontaneity in Your Relationship

I love that after so many years of marriage, my wife and I have developed a comfortable routine. Most days, I can’t wait to come home from work and put on my sweatpants for a quiet night at home. It’s how we recharge. However, there are other habits we have to liven things up, whether it’s things we do together, such as simply making time for each other, or things we do for ourselves, like integrating NeriumAD into our skincare routine—excitement and spontaneity isn’t just about suddenly doing things different, but introducing habits into your routine that maintain excitement as well. Read on for more about how to make excitement a habit:

Embrace fun whims

Even if you like your routine, you can inject excitement into your relationship by embracing spontaneity every once in a while. If you have time, indulge those whims and cravings that you don’t usually entertain for the sake of comfort and routine. This can be as simple as trying out a new dinner place or as daring as packing up on a Friday afternoon and driving to the airport before you even decide where to go.

Put extra effort into your appearance

My wife and I have been around each other long enough to where we don’t pay as much attention to each other’s looks. I think she’s beautiful even when she’s stressing about her roots growing in, and she likes to mention how handsome I look in a tie even though I wear one most days. After leaving the dating game, other things just become a bigger priority, and it’s true that appearance should not be the most important aspect of your life. However, it’s about the ritual—putting effort into attracting your partner, even if you already find each other irresistible without this effort, is a gesture in itself. It’s just a simple way to show that you care about maintaining your relationship, and it can even help to get you in the mood for spontaneity. 

For those whose beauty routines have remained stagnant for a while and wonder how to spice things up, here are some suggestions: 

• Exercise regularly. Even if you’re at the weight you want, exercise has many other benefits. It helps manage stress along with other internal benefits that will have a youthful effect on your appearance.

• Take care of those personal pet peeves about your appearance in ways that won’t take too much away from your other relationship-renewing efforts. If you want pearly whites, try out some teeth whitening techniques. If you want to improve thinning hair, there are plenty of easy options out there. If you’re bothered by fine lines and wrinkles, find a face cream that works.

I always suggest NeriumAD, a product perfect for those who want to reduce the appearance of the signs of aging without having to book any appointments. You can easily introduce NeriumAD into your routine by applying once a day before you go to bed and let NeriumAD do the rest. This one-of-a-kind face cream isn’t anything like the products you see saturating beauty aisles. Procured using scientifically advanced extraction techniques, the main active ingredient in NeriumAD, Nerium oleander extract, helps to improve the look of wrinkles and fine lines for a rejuvenated look.